10 Bits of Advice for Graduates

The Big Day is Almost Here

Can you believe it? Graduation is just around the corner, and in just a few weeks, the next class of graduates will walk across the stage in #Fxbg! It’s an exciting time, full of mixed emotions, and as you prepare to take this big step into the future, I wanted to offer some last-minute words of wisdom. Whether you’re about to start college, enter the workforce, or take some time to figure things out, these 10 bits of advice will help guide you through this exciting new chapter of life.

Here’s the countdown to your big day — let’s jump right into the advice!

10 – Don’t Overshare on Social Media

Before you post that picture, ask yourself: “Will this post help, encourage, or inspire others?” Remember that everything you share on social media could potentially be seen by future employers, your grandparents, and even your grandkids. Think twice before sharing anything that might not add value or is just for the sake of attention. Of course sharing something for entertainment purposes is also a win just be sure it’s not a funny at the expense of someone’s feelings.

9 – Adventure Greatly

Don’t let life pass you by. This is a big one for me. I missed a once in a lifetime moment with my Dad and sister and I’ll never get a chance to reclaim that adventure. Since then I found new inspiration in the saying “Carpe Diem”. If an opportunity arises for something unique and special — take it! Life is full of chances, and some of them only come once. The everyday stuff can always wait, but those rare adventures, grab them while you can. Just be sure to recognize what truly counts as a “once-in-a-lifetime” experience (trust me, dorm parties don’t make the list 😉).

8 – Failure Is a Necessary Part of Success

Failure is not the end. It’s a part of the process, and it’s where character and resilience are built. You’ll fall short sometimes, but don’t let that discourage you. Each failure teaches you something valuable, and it’s all part of the journey to success. Don’t let the fear of failure keep you from take steps along the path of life.

7 – Go into the Next Phase of Life with Eyes and Ears Wide Open

Life after graduation can be overwhelming, but it’s also a chance for self discovery. An opportunity to learn what you want from the world and what you want to give to the world. Be open-minded, listen to others, and approach every situation with curiosity. Your goal should be to live a life that matters — one that honors your values and, for many of you, your faith.

6 – Ask for Help

Perfectionism can be a huge roadblock. It will tell you things like, “You have to do it all alone,” or “You’re a not good enough if you need help.” Don’t fall for it! Asking for help is not a sign of weakness — it’s a sign of strength and maturity. Remember, you’re in a stage of learning, and that involves asking questions and seeking advice from others.

5 – Try New Things!

This is your time to explore and experiment. Take that random elective you’ve been thinking about, join a club you never considered, or try something totally outside of your comfort zone. You never know what passions or interests you might discover. Life is all about trying new things, and there’s no better time than now to “test drive” different experiences!

4 – Never Stop Learning

Learning doesn’t stop once you get that diploma — in fact, it’s just the beginning. Never think you know it all because as soon as you do, growth will stop. Seek knowledge, be curious, and embrace the pursuit of learning. This mindset will keep you evolving as a person, no matter how old you get.

3 – Soak Up the Last Days of Being a “Kid”

I know, I know — you’re ready to be an adult, and you can’t wait for that next stage of life. But trust me on this one: These are your final days of being a “kid”. I tell my boys all the time you will get to be an adult for the rest of your life don’t rush it. Go to prom, take that senior trip, stay out late, and just be silly! This is your time to enjoy the moments that you’ll remember forever. Adulthood arrives so quickly; take these last moments to truly soak it all in.

2 – Don’t Take Yourself So Seriously!

Life is too short to take everything personally or be too hard on yourself. Learn to laugh and learn from your mistakes and don’t let the small stuff stress you out. Newsflash: the world does not revolve around you (and that’s okay!). When you step outside of your own thoughts and realize that, more often than not, everyone else’s decisions have nothing to do with you, your relationships and perspective on life will improve immensely.

1 – HAVE FUN!! 🎉

At the end of the day, this is the most important advice. Life is full of challenges and responsibilities, but don’t forget to enjoy the ride! Graduation marks the end of one chapter and the beginning of another — so make sure you have some fun along the way. Life would be boring if it was all work and no play. So yes, work hard, but also learn to play hard (and responsibly). The joyful parts of your life will make the work parts worth it. I really love the scene from Emily in Paris shortly after she arrives and is talking with Luc. Luke claims she has the wrong work / life balance. He said “You live to work … we work to live”. Just marinate on that one for a while.

Bonus Tip for Followers of Jesus: Remember Who & Whose You Are

This one is for those of you who are walking with faith. As you head out into the “real world,” remember who you are and whose you are. College, the workforce, and life in general will try to distract and derail you, but don’t lose sight of your foundation in Christ. Stay strong in your faith, lean into God, and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus. Do everything to glorify God, not please man. It won’t be easy, but very few things worth having ever come easy.

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To all the graduates out there: Congratulations! As the big day draws near, take a deep breath and embrace what’s coming. It might seem like everything is happening so fast (where did the last few years go?), but these moments will shape who you are for the rest of your life. I hope at least one of these 10 bits of advice spoke to you. Enjoy these last few days of high school, keep your heart and mind open, and always remember to have fun along the way. 🎓

PS if you haven’t taken your Senior Portraits I’d love to work with you. That too is an iconic way to celebrate the end of your twelfth year.